what journey?

so many times i read about "journeys in life"... some people say plan it carefully for intended goal, others say it's not the destination but the "journey"...

what journey? if you think you are in one, think again... if you said life is a journey, think again...

our lives are defined by every single decision that we make, so in every single moment of our lives, we are in a crossroad. and after selecting a path, then another crossroad... and another crossroad...

there's only "Yes" and "No"... sometimes you even can't chose, you are pushed to take roads you don't want to... sometimes the path you want to take is blocked... then we try to overcome those blockages, but doing that is already taking another path...

so what journey?